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***QUESTION***
Dave,
I've been getting your newsletters for a while and I've also downloaded your e-book. The tips and techniques you offer are definitely useful and I'm working on incorporating them into my daily routine. So keep up the good work!
Now the question. You've stated numerous times how personality is more important than the other 2 biggies: looks and money. What is your take on shows like "Joe Millionaire" where the star is usually has money and/or good looks? I mean, it's not called "Joe Personality", and they didn't pick Quasimodo to be the star, so it seems to me they're discounting the personality aspect altogether. Just curious about your opinion. Thanks...
TJ Philly
» MY COMMENTS:
This is a GREAT question.
I'm sure that more than one guy has read one of these newsletters, then drove downtown and saw some handsome guy drive by in a Ferrari with a smoking hot babe next to him and thought "Looks and money appear to be important factors when it comes to babes".
It doesn't take 20 years of studying human behavior to figure out that looks and money attract women.
But what YOU'RE suggesting here, by the way you're phrasing your question, is that all other things being equal, LOOKS and MONEY are MORE important than personality... and that, in fact, if a man has those things that he can attract more women than a guy that doesn't have the benefit of good looks or money (but who has the most attractive personality).
Did that make sense? That sounded like a math problem from middle school.
Whatever.
My point is that if you have good looks, and lots of money, you will definitely have an advantage.
Looks and money will allow you to hang out in places like the South Of France, where a drink is forty bucks... and there are lots of babes there.
But here's the KEY...
A guy who is AMAZINGLY handsome and SUPER rich will still fail MOST of the time with the women he interacts with if his PERSONALTIY isn't together. And especially if he's too much of a WUSSY.
On the other hand, a guy who REALLY understands what makes women feel ATTRACTION, and knows how to interact with them in a way that grabs their attention and keeps it can succeed often, even if he's broke and ugly.
You'll notice that the rich and handsome guys that are the REAL mac daddies are the ones who ALSO understand women - and have Cocky, Funny, Dominant personalities as well.
The reason why the show you're referring to gets so much attention has NOTHING TO DO with the logic you're using.
The appeal of the show is the CONCEPT, combined with the scandal/fairytale elements (not to mention a bunch of hot women to look at).
Think about it.
I get far too many emails from:
1) Guys who are successful and good-looking who are very unsuccessful with women and...
2) Average-looking and average-income guys who have TONS of success with women...
...to believe that looks and money rule attraction.
They help, but a man who understands women, communication, and ATTRACTION will be more successful than a rich, handsome guy who doesn't.
A final thought for you: You've probably seen those "executive match making" services advertised in your local paper, or in the fancy car magazines.
Do you know how much they charge men to be members?
Some charge TWENTY GRAND or more.
Put that one through your logic machine, and see what you come up with.